All of this before she's one?!

She had already endured more in her first 6 months than most have in their entire lifetime.

Valencia as a girl's name is of Latin origin meaning "strong or healthy". It derives from Valentinus, a saint's name. It is also a place name for the city on the Mediterranean coast of Spain, known for its oranges.

    I named her correctly. She is strong, stronger than many people I've met. Within her first six months of life, she has already endured more than most have and will endure in their entire lifespan. I am in awe of her spirit whenever we are faced with a challenge. She not only takes it head on but also does it with a smile.    

    So, just to recap we have had six weeks of casts on both legs, six weeks of a Ponseti brace with a bar keeping legs separated, a NCV test and multiple blood tests as well as multiple other tests to check all areas of Valencia's body. Whew! And we are still enduring more. 

    I wanted to take a break from the procedures though to tell about the victories too. V is for Valencia and is V for victory. (Yes, I'm an educator at heart). 

    I remember this day as if it was yesterday cliché to say I know but it's true, because it's one of the happy days. One of the days, we got good news from the doctors and not more procedures or test to do. We got to take the casts and braces off, her little legs would get a break *no pun intended. 

    This was her first car ride home without a brace, a cast, or a wrap. Based off her look I don't even think she believed it! We were excited on this day, it gave a sense of "normalcy" little did we know that our normal would always look a little different from others. It is a life we have learned to love and continue to learn from each day. Things may look different for us but we have embraced it and share the victories as well as the setbacks with all. 

Brace yourself

 Brace Yourself for what comes next

    O.k. whew! We got through casting. Her feet looked dramatically different and that only took six weeks. The amniotic bands that were wrapped around caused bilateral clubfeet and that was just one condition. The casting worked though, I kept saying that to myself because I knew deep down that we weren't done but I wanted what my baby just went through to be over, no more procedures, "We're done right?" I would ask the doctors. I.WAS.SO.WRONG!!! We were just beginning. 

    So, her feet looked so much better but as I stated we were just beginning. She now had to be in what's called a Ponseti brace (named after the inventor). This brace would have to be worn 24/7 for 3 months only to be taken off for baths. When I tell you children are the epitome of resilience they absolutely are. This brace wouldn't be worn by the strongest of men or woman today without a full fit and yet here my 3 month old baby was wearing it daily with a smile. She learned how to crawl with this brace and would just happily mosey around the house, she learned how to sleep on her side while leaning the brace against her crib, she even taught me how to hold her and carry her without a worry while in this brace. Yes, resilience is born in every child and somehow as we grow older we grow out of it, that's one trait that 2020 retaught us for sure.

    One take away that I hope we all get from learning about Valencia's journey is the trait of resilience. We all have it, it's what we do with it that makes a difference. 

Casting Director

Grasping the Casting

After visiting with our pediatrician he immediately referred us to Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children. Of course being a Dallas native I had heard of this Hospital and the wonderful work they do for kids, never did I imagine we would become a Rite Family.

You can imagine the fear, shock, thoughts, that were circulating through my head. I didn't know what to expect. Valencia was born with her legs so twisted and wrapped in the bands that her legs were so misshapen and we weren't even sure if she could feel them. I remember keeping them covered even back then, I didn't want others to look at me in judgement. They didn't know that her pregnancy was normal up until she was born, they didn't know that I was dealing with daily guilt thinking that I caused this. They didn't need to know and by they I of course mean strangers, Valencia has had a village of supporters since she was born, they never judged, never questioned, just helped whenever and wherever needed. I tear up when I think about the amount of support we've had, the hugs, prayers, money, and time that everyone has helped with is nothing short of a miracle sent to us from God, he knew we were gonna need it. I digress, back to our Scottish Rite initial visit. 

 We got a call a couple of days after the referral to schedule an appointment. They make everything as smooth as possible for the families, I guess they know that we are freaking out on the inside. I mean wouldn't you? My mom of course accompanied me to her visit and every visit their after, I am so grateful to her. When we arrived Valencia was only 1 week old and after x-rays, ultrasound and numerous physical assessments, we were told the treatment plan. 

She would need to have full leg casts on her legs for the first six weeks of life with us visiting every week so they can change them out. Each time they would hold her legs in a different way in order to hopefully correct the misshapen contour. She wasn't in pain as far we could tell, she did hate having the casts removed though, it was done by Art and he was so awesome, the vibration would scare V so bad she'd just scream but only for a minute, she's never been a complainer for any procedures and that continues throughout all other procedures as you'll learn about later on. Doctors have always been so impressed with her ability to handle procedures and/or surgeries. 

Her casts gave her middle name Bella a whole new meaning, she would sometimes sound like a bell. When she had her casts on and when you'd pick her up you had to be careful because if you didn't hold her just right her casts would clink together and sound just like a bell. Each time it happened she would smile and if the saying is true "each time a bell rings an angel gets their wings" V has given a lot of angels wings. Her journey continues after the casts were off and each process we've learned so much. 

If your child also need casts on, just remember it is nerve wracking but only to us families, the babies are so resilient and don't even notice them, well hardly, refer to previous paragraph for bell sound! Keep in mind that it is only temporary and that it is working for the greater good of your baby. Feel free to comment below with questions and/or your experience with casting.